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The Rarest Lover Type, and How 14,000+ People Actually Love

By An Nayal - Published August 18, 2026

We looked at 14,556 Type of Lovers quizzes taken between September 10, 2024 and August 2, 2026. Here is what the numbers say about how people actually love: which of the 16 lover types is rarest, which is most common, how many people finish the quiz, and when they take it. Every figure below traces to the same anonymous dataset.

Type distribution is a derived estimate, cross-validated, not a raw label. See the methodology for exactly how it was built and what it does and does not support.

21.6%

are the Ember

The most common lover type, more than one in five people.

under 1.6%

each for the three rarest

Jewel, Stone, and Sky sit alone at the bottom.

78.3%

finish the quiz

11,403 of 14,556 complete it, in about five minutes.

The rarest lover types

Three types share the bottom of the table, each claimed by under 1.6% of the 11,357 people we could place: the Jewel (1.2%), the Stone (1.3%), and the Sky (1.5%). Two are Earth types and one is Air, and all three lean practical and logical in how they show love.

We treat these three as a cluster rather than crowning one single winner. Two independent ways of reading the data both put the same three types last, but they order them slightly differently, so the honest finding is that the Jewel, the Stone, and the Sky are the rarest, each under 1.6%, and not that any one of them is precisely rarest of all.

The most common lover type

At the other end, one type stands clearly ahead. The Ember (warm, empathetic, and deeply devoted) accounts for 21.6% of results, 2,455 people, more than one in five and over eight points ahead of the next type. If there is a default way this quiz sees people loving, it is warm, devoted, and emotionally direct.

All 16 lover types, most to least common

The full distribution across the 11,357 completed quizzes that resolved to a single clear type. Tap a name to read the full type.

RankLover typeElementRespondentsShare
1EmberEDFCFire2,45521.6%
2WaveEPFAWater1,47413.0%
3SparkEDFAFire1,39312.3%
4StreamEPFCWater1,30311.5%
5GemLDFCEarth7416.5%
6AuraLPFAAir6655.9%
7TideEPRAWater5594.9%
8BreezeLPFCAir5264.6%
9CrystalLDFAEarth4283.8%
10BlazeEDRCFire3813.4%
11InfernoEDRAFire3503.1%
12WhirlwindLPRAAir3132.8%
13CurrentEPRCWater3012.7%
14SkyLPRCAir1741.5%
15StoneLDRAEarth1531.3%
16JewelLDRCEarth1411.2%

N = 11,357 completed quizzes with a single clear type. Shares are of that set and total about 100% after rounding. Type is derived from each respondent's raw per-type scores, not a stored label; see the methodology.

Read all 16 relationship personalities in depth

How people take the quiz

78.3% finish. Of the 14,556 quizzes recorded, 11,403 were completed. For a free quiz with no account required, better than three in four finishing is a strong rate.

About five minutes each. The typical quiz takes 4:50 (median), with the middle half of people finishing between 3:35 and 6:41. The mean is a bit higher at 5:45, pulled up by a handful of tabs left open for up to 118 minutes. The fastest finish of just 3 seconds is almost certainly a bot, not a reader.

October 2025 was the peak. 4,186 quizzes landed that month, 28.8% of everything in the dataset. The single busiest week was October 6 to 12, 2025 with 1,479 quizzes. Volume built slowly through 2024, climbed across 2025, spiked hard in the autumn, and has settled back down since.

Quizzes per month

Sep 2024
7
Oct 2024
57
Nov 2024
68
Dec 2024
66
Jan 2025
160
Feb 2025
304
Mar 2025
368
Apr 2025
353
May 2025
356
Jun 2025
343
Jul 2025
547
Aug 2025
619
Sep 2025
1,934
Oct 2025
4,186
Nov 2025
2,094
Dec 2025
981
Jan 2026
1,533
Feb 2026
232
Mar 2026
118
Apr 2026
73
May 2026
54
Jun 2026
56
Jul 2026
42
Aug 2026
5

Monthly quiz submissions, September 10, 2024 to August 2, 2026. The final month is partial (the export cut off in early August 2026).

Across the week the load is fairly even, with Tuesday the busiest day and Saturday the quietest, and a broad afternoon peak around 3 PM. The file does not label a timezone, so read the time of day as a ranking within the data, not a specific local clock, especially given how international the respondent base is.

Methodology

The data. 14,556 quiz submissions recorded between September 10, 2024 and August 2, 2026, plus 14 newer submissions through August 18, 2026 used only to validate the method, for 14,570 in total. These are anonymous aggregates. No names, emails, or individual rows appear anywhere on this page.

How the type was worked out. The export did not store a plain lover type for each person. Its result column held opaque legacy identifiers, one unique token per submission, that carry no type meaning on their own. So we reconstructed each person's type from the raw scores the quiz already records: every submission carries a match score against all 16 types, and we took each person's highest-scoring type. That covers 11,357 of the 11,403 completed quizzes; 46 exact ties were set aside rather than guessed.

How we checked it. We rebuilt the type a second, independent way, from the four underlying trait axes, and the two methods agree on about 84% of quizzes. Where they disagree it is almost always the first trait (heart-led versus head-led), which is a genuine near-tie for many people; the other three traits are reliable. We also checked the method against 14 quizzes that did carry a real type code, and 11 of 14 matched exactly, the three misses being rounding ties. This is why we report the rarest types as a cluster of three rather than ranking them to the decimal.

What this is, and is not. Type of Lovers is a fun, free relationship quiz, not a clinical or validated psychological instrument, and this is a look at how its own takers land across the 16 types, not a claim about the general population. The type distribution is a careful, cross-validated estimate, not a stored value. We did not report a traffic-source breakdown (99.7% of rows carry no source tag) or an email opt-in rate (the export measures it two different, non-comparable ways), because the data does not honestly support either.

What the quiz is based on

The lover types are framework-inspired, not a clinical instrument. The traits behind them draw on well-known ways of thinking about relationships, used here as inspiration rather than a claim of scientific equivalence:

For the full breakdown of how the quiz works, see the about page.

Cite this study

You are free to cite or reference these findings, with a link back to this page (CC BY 4.0). Suggested citation:

Type of Lovers. (2026). The Rarest Lover Type, and How 14,000+ People Actually Love. https://www.typeoflovers.com/study

Canonical URL: https://www.typeoflovers.com/study

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